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Putting the hopeless in "hopeless romantic"

I was chatting with a friend, MJ, in the wee hours of the morning, talking about men and how we relate to them, then she mentioned something that I do after a "relationship" has ended. I stay friends with him. I wish the best for him and hope with all my heart that he finds the person he was meant to be with. It may sting, especially at first, but, it's what's best, so you wave them off and wish them the best. Eventually it will sting less, because you feel the joy they feel. MJ said to me, "that's how you know that you loved him, you do things that hurt you for their benefit and wish them the best even though doing so makes your heart break" I think she's right. Shakespeare was right too. "It's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all". LOL! I'm so cheesy - but hey, I'm a hopeless romantic, so its allowed, even expected. One of my closest friend is having a tumultuous time. Her dad is dealing with